Are you supportive?

Do you try to support your friends and family members no matter what? And I will not use with drugs or alcohol as an example because even I would only be supportive for the person to get help. My example is if you had a friend that wanted to divorce her husband, because she just wasn't in love with him anymore. Would you be supportive of her or disapprove and make her feel bad because you couldn't get off your moral high horse to see that it was the right thing for her to do. My point of view with it is why live the lie? I have a friend who in the last 6 or so months left her husband because she just wasn't in love with him anymore and could not keep up the facade of pretending that she was. I am fully supportive of her because in her heart she knew it was the right decision. If she had had doubts I would have tried to help her sort out her thoughts and figure out what was truly the right thing for her. But I don't think she is wrong for it, hell I think she is brave for taking the steps and realize what was the thing for her to do. Anyway enough rambling she has someone who think she made a terrible decision that she thought was a friend. Who she and I both think should not have judged her but been supportive and understanding of her decision. So my thing is if you had a friend in this predicament would you judge them and tell them you disapprove or would you be supportive and be behind them for doing what was right for them?

~Sharon